On one side:

Why am I always the one planning for date night?

Why does s/he take so long to reply to my message? 

Does s/he really love me?

Does s/he even care?

On the other side:

Why does s/he have to be so dramatic?  Why is s/he so needy?

Why can’t s/he just leave me alone?

Sound familiar? Let’s find out your attachment style in 5 minutes: